more than just friend?

It is my activity to check all my friends’ blog and comment on it. But for ‘this’ entry I think it is not suitable for me to comment on her luahan perasaan. I think better for me to comment it when her emotion gets stable. What is her entry all about?

Actually, she just wrote a new entry and her entry is something like this. She had a friend and of course her friend is a man. She said that her friend is fall in love with her. But she cannot accept him more than just friend. After that she said that her friend didn’t want to be her friend anymore. She felt really hurt about that situation. How can he do like that? She also mentioned that all of us be a friend because of sincerity from our heart. When we add other objective to be someone friend and when the objective cannot be achieve, that why it happened. The man can leave their friendship and the girl felt sad for the man’s action.

In my opinion, the girl needs to give the man more time to recover from broken heart. It is not easy for men and even for girls to accept the facts that their love has been rejected. Same goes to the man. He needs more time to accept the fact. Sometimes we are sincere to be friend with someone. But in the middle of the friendship the feeling to be more than just friend comes to one of them. So it doesn’t mean that the man is not sincere to be a friend. It is just a feeling that comes and it cannot be controlled. So, maybe the girl felt hurt because the man didn’t want to be her friend anymore. But she must remember that the man heart is more hurt than the girl. So, just give the man time to recover. After he can get the strength back, he will come to be a better friend.

Hmm… why do I write about this matter? Actually I really want to comment on her entry but I don’t think she can accept it with her condition like that. So, hopefully she can read this entry latter…

Selamat Berpuasa..

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Esok mula la 1^st day puasa. Hopefully everything will be ok.

"Ya Allah Ya tuhanku…aku memohon kepadamu agar hindarkan lah aku dari perbuatan2 yg boleh mendatangkan dosa lantas mengurangkan pahala puasa ku. Perbanyakkan lah amal ibadatku dikala pintu syurga Mu dibuka seluas-luasnya dan pintu neraka Mu ditutup serapat-rapatnya. Berikan lah ku menikmat ramadan ini sekali lagi Ya Allah. Semoga aku sentiasa berada dalam keredhaan Mu Ya Allah… Amin Ya Rabbal Alamin."

Kepada rakan2 sekalian, ingin ku ucapkan selamat berpuasa. Jika ade salah dan silap harap maafkan. Semoga kita melangkah ke bulan Ramadan dlm keadaan bersih dan mengakhirinya dlm keadaan suci..